Let the hive mind of Engadget get that for you.
"I'm in the market for a new phone and money isn't a limitation. I'm also not partial to any particular US carrier, but here are some of the features I'd like to have: WiFi, GPS, good coverage in lots of places, push Gmail (a must!), physical keyboard (a must!), a touchscreen, decent battery life and a relatively slim body. And please, nothing that has a fruit logo on it. No offense to the fruit fans, though. Thanks!"
I will almost guarantee you that the functionality in Amarok which allowed you to connect an iPod to almost anyone's machine and copy music on without resynching the library probably brought heat onto Apple from the content providers. "This must sync to only one library; if people can just pull music off of their friends' machines, that promotes piracy! Fix this, or we will pull our music after the next renewal."
Granted, we have no real way of knowing whether Apple would put their money where their mouth is if given the free reign to open everything up; they might quite happily sit on everything and lock stuff down. But there is some evidence (from their work on zeroconf and other open protocols, as well as their contributions to open source projects) that they might actually mean what they claim.
But at least right now, not all of the blame can be placed on them. (Just as not all of the blame for DRM issues with Windows can be placed on Microsoft, either.)