Having a role to play is integral to the massively multiplayer online experience, but when the term "roleplay" comes up, it usually means something very specific and closely related to dramatic acting. Taken in a broader sense, it means that we choose our roles when we project the most imaginative aspect of our psychic selves and ask the question "who (or what) do I want to be?" Thus, our vicarious adventures begin. For the purposes of social gaming, it should come as no surprise that those classes usually fit another staple in the MMO universe -- the role trinity of tanker, healer, and damager. While the bond between the healer and tanker is obvious, the unspoken pact between healer and damager is just as sacred and yet all too easily forgotten. For those who were unaware such a promise existed, it goes something like, "I, the healer, promise to keep you alive so you can kill stuff in the face (better)." However, in many cases, the damaging character is delegated an expendable role, compared to the tank's priority or the healer's own survival. These are exceptions that the melee-damager is usually aware of and even comfortable with.
But today I'm not here to challenge those roles like I normally would when talking about damage-healer hybrids. As a specialized healer, I've defined a few, easy-to-remember rules that I believe every melee-damage player should follow in group situations (PUG or premade – there is little difference when it comes to these rules). Solo play is an entirely different realm and beyond the scope of this column; I want to focus on the special synergy between healer and melee-damager, and to dispense advice to those brave, wayward souls in their never-ending quest to face blades as they bring their own to bear.
I'll bestow these tidbits of wisdom after the break.
Simply put, being the first to die is effective at a few things, and neither of them is good. First, your healer is no longer healing, but is casting a resurrection spell instead. The domino effect starts to happen, as others are dying from lack of heals and are in turn receiving resurrections instead of heals, so on, and so forth. Second, like in American football, the home-team has "lost a yard," and the lines are inevitably pressed back. In this case, even a well-positioned healer runs the risk of being exposed (and to follow the analogy, of being sacked). Furthermore, those waiting for resurrections might never receive them on account of being swallowed by the push.
The first rule also goes hand in hand with target selection. Don't be afraid to take the time to be picky -- although that juicy swordmaster has lots of hit-points to subtract, that white lion your tank is bashing on is probably worth his weight in renown. This aspect of the "First Term" is really just common sense. Pick your targets sensibly and aggressively. Be selective.
It is at this crucial point during the battle that you should disengage (if you can), take your tunnel-vision goggles off, and have a look around. Every swimmer or diver needs to eventually come up for breath, and so should you. Analyze the battlefield. There is probably a good reason you're not being healed. Is the tank running low? Has a nearby friendly died? Is your healer in trouble and in need of desperate and immediate assistance? During the next five seconds, you should ask yourself all of these questions, and then do something even more important: answer them. If your tank is running low, remove your Guard buff (if you have one) and give him a little breathing room with his health bar. If someone else has died, you might want to consider repositioning; either cover-up your fallen comrade or be prepared to fall back against an advancing enemy front-line. If your healer is getting his/her quarter-hourly spinal tap from a witch elf, you might consider buffing your killing blows with this de-stealthed and otherwise-preoccupied freebie.
Basically, the second rule deals with general awareness. It is easy to get lost in the madness with the blinders on, so take them off and lift your head once in a while. If you can help to find and address the problem (the problem of you not being healed, and why), you'll be doing your whole team a favor, as well as giving your healer the crucial reprieve he or she might need to recover and resume healing you. Shouting in chat and calling out "bad" healers is not an example of following this rule.
In conclusion, I'll attempt to summarize my rules as briefly as I can:
1) Don't be the first in. Hide and Seek (and Destroy).
2) Don't be the last out. Disengage and Analyze.
3) Be accountable. Prepare and React.
Oh, and finally, always remember to have fun. It is just a game, after all.