Drama Mama Lisa: You're not just out of time for smelling the roses, No Time -- you've got no time at all. Time's up. The genie's out of the bottle, and there's no stuffing it back inside. Your partner has skipped so much content and context at this point that the game's been reduced to a dry list of to-do's. Worse, he's not even completing these duties himself -- he's merely coming along for the ride while you point to each task and then put the heirloom-plated smackdown on it.
Your situation perfectly illustrates the dangers of using the Recruit-A-Friend feature for new players. While I'm not blaming the program itself per se, I do believe that it's best suited for experienced gamers, not new players. You want your partner to fall in love with this game and this world, but you've yanked him past every chance he's had to engage.
Stoooop the insanity! Don't take one more step down this road. He's not having fun, and you both know it. Mists of Pandaria's launch is the perfect time and perfect excuse to reboot this mess, so go back to the beginning and make a pair of pandaren -- that's right, something neither of you have played. Then spend your time bounding and rolling around the new starter zones, soaking up the story and toying with new fun features like pet battles. When it comes time to choose a faction, choose whatever faction you didn't play before, so he'll get to see still more new content.
A few particulars:
Drama Mama Robin
- No more Recruit-A-Friend boosts. If you like some of the other benefits of the program, so be it -- but no more speed-demon leveling. The simplest way to avoid the XP gain would be to start him a regular account. You could also choose to remain ungrouped while you play together. You'll find a few more details in a response by Blizzard CS rep Irylinne on a forums post asking how to dodge RAF XP boosts.
- No more heirlooms for you. You want to spend time with your partner, right? Then don't rush through the very activity you're trying to share. Let it unfold naturally, at its own pace. Leveling has been polished to a brisk pace in today's game; you don't need to accelerate any aspect of the gameplay.
- Get questing. He'll see more of world and the stories, and he'll have more opportunities to get comfortable with his abilities without the pressure of group expectations.
- Get your hardcore fix on your own time. Yeah, that means that for now, playing your high-level characters means time away from your partner. But to ripen a character he'll become invested in, he needs the luxury of moving at his own pace (or at the very least, your mutual new character pace).
- Change the focus. If you intend your time in the game to be meaningful time spent together, that means no rushing. WoW Night is Date Night -- treat it as such.
: I agree completely with everything Lisa says here, No Time. The only thing she doesn't really address is your boredom with questing. So here are some tips for making your WoW
Date Night more interesting for yourself:
- Quest in places you haven't quested before. You totally need to go panda, as Lisa says. But have you also leveled through all of the older zones that Cataclysm updated? If you're Horde, I highly recommend both Silverpine and Hillsbrad. Alliance-side, I thought Darkshore was heartbreakingly entertaining. I'm sure the commenters will recommend some of their favorite zones and quests.
- PvP on your way up. I'm sure you can convince your partner that learning to PvP when your character is a youngster makes you more confident in the higher levels. And variety is good to keep away your boredom.
- Don't play your Date Night character when not playing with your partner. This is a big one. Make this pair a duo. It will make your partner feel more involved, and I believe you will enjoy the bond of having your characters do everything together.
- Don't bother with professions. Gathering and profession dailies can really bog gameplay down. Just ignore them for your duo.
- Enthuse. You want to convey the experience you had at the beginning? Do it. Tell him all the parts you like as you go. Compare them to when you were a noob. Everyone likes to reminisce and tell stories, so you'll enjoy yourself more while selling the game to your partner.
- Be positive. Don't go into it with the whole "back to the quest grindstone" attitude. Think of the WoW date as if it were a hiking date or a long road trip to some place fun. They all require some effort and take an investment in time, but the time spent together and the reward at the end are worth it.
If things don't work out and your partner doesn't really like the game, try not to seem too disappointed or make him feel bad about it. He's given it a good try and you appreciate that. Let him know.
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